Morality and Mortality
Author: will | Filed under: 4ds, charity, death, social media, social networkI wrote about Information Loss and Death back in January. At the time I wondered about messages from beyond the grave.
Shortly afterwards, Darryl Ohrt, posted a beautiful but tragic advert highlighting just such a case (embedded below).
The advert for the Australian Cure For Life Foundation actually hurts to watch. I’m honestly advising against watching it.
The film created by DDB Sydney and Filmgraphics shows the heartache of a mother with Brain Cancer knowing she won’t live long enough to be with her baby daughter as she grows older. In the advert she leaves messages for her daughter.
While writing about the information loss aspect of death I wondered if, upon confirmation, that a message should be distributed to “friends” of the deceased in that social network. Marcus MacInnes of Pix.ie explained
[the] moral issue which until your question, we had not fully considered. How would friends react to receiving an on-line message from someone whom they knew had recently died. We cannot assume that the custodian of the account would act in any given manner and it is not clear whether or not we have a moral responsibility to provide reasonable protection to our users from receiving messages via our platform which are likely to cause distress. An example of this may be when a custodian acts irresponsibly, either intentionally or unintentionally.
The problem of course is that there is no easy way to tell someone that you aren’t going to be coming home. That you won’t see them again. If its hard during break-up, imagine what its like when its unavoidable. All I can think of is the impersonal. “This profile is now in memorial state.” Then let the inquirers ask.
take care,
Will